Lilly Jay, the ex-wife of actor Ethan Slater, has candidly shared her experience of their sudden divorce and his subsequent relationship with pop star Ariana Grande.
In a personal essay for The Cut, Jay reflects on the unexpected end of her marriage, the challenges of co-parenting, and the public scrutiny that followed.
Unexpected End to a Long-Term Relationship
Jay describes the dissolution of her marriage as a “season of shock and mourning,” particularly as it occurred shortly after the birth of their first child. She recounts the difficulties of navigating the end of a long-term relationship, especially when it is overshadowed by her ex-husband’s new high-profile romance.
Balancing Privacy and Public Attention
As a clinical psychologist, Jay emphasizes the importance of privacy in her professional life. She discusses the struggle of maintaining this privacy while her personal life became a topic of public interest. The media attention surrounding Slater’s relationship with Grande added an additional layer of complexity to her personal and professional challenges.
Commitment to Co-Parenting
Despite the upheaval, Jay highlights her and Slater’s dedication to co-parenting their 2-year-old son. She expresses that their commitment to their child’s well-being remains unwavering, even as they navigate the complexities of their changed relationship dynamics.
Finding Strength Amidst Challenges
Jay reflects on her journey towards acceptance and resilience. She acknowledges the difficulties of becoming a public figure due to circumstances beyond her control and shares her efforts to find strength and positivity in the face of adversity.
Looking Forward
While the promotion of the Wicked film, which features both Slater and Grande, serves as a constant reminder of her past, Jay remains focused on her future. She is determined to rebuild her life, both for herself and her son, and to continue her professional endeavors with renewed purpose.
For a more in-depth understanding, you can read Lilly Jay’s full essay in The Cut.
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